Written in masculine form but addressed to both genders and even more so to women.
There is some confusion among the “aware” audience regarding the topic of sexual confidence and sexual openness.
It seems that sexual development among people in the non-religious alternative world, which essentially draws from Osho's neo-tantra principles (the path he proposed contains a lot of ego and lies beyond the seemingly warm and genuine surface), involves externalizing sexuality, increased sexual openness outside of long-term relationships, wearing revealing clothes, talking about sexuality in an open and extroverted manner, and so on.
I certainly don't judge anyone, but I just want to point out that sexuality is something whose beauty and sanctity are expressed in a modest, humble way and “in private”.
Sexual openness in men, and even more so in women, should come in a modest form, mainly within the walls of the home and in front of one's partner.
Sexual confidence is important (for men), but sexual confidence should be expressed outwardly in a humble and modest way.
If sexual confidence and openness are expressed in an extroverted and vulgar (aggressive, intense, crude) manner, it actually shows an internal imbalance and lack of self-acceptance.
In contrast, strong and powerful sexual confidence that is expressed to the world in the form of quiet inner strength comes with inner centering and a sense of balance.
For a man, it is recommended to develop sexual confidence when he wants to enter a serious relationship (and this is done through learning from professionals and certain self-practice without ejaculation. It is never recommended, wrong, and completely unnecessary to gain sexual confidence through “experimenters I don't care about”)
For a woman, it is recommended to develop sexual confidence only within the framework of marriage in a perfect world, or in a relationship aimed at marriage in a less-than-perfect world (developing sexual confidence in frameworks other than these two I mentioned is also possible in a world of sewage and filth, and they are not recommended, although obviously possible).
This article may create resistance, but I'm only interested in truth and the greater good, and this is my main value in the world above all else.
And as Arthur Schopenhauer said:
“All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.”
I'm sure this is a post that will help people, so it's recommended to share.
With love, David Osher 
